Thursday, February 27, 2014
Lets Get Fun With Nutrition!
Monday, February 20, 2012
Why Are There So Many Passive Parents?

Today, myself and all 4 of my children saw a 4.5 year old kicking and punching his mother at the bagel place near our house. When she KINDLY asked him to stop, he screamed at the top of his lungs, "SHUT UP!!" Then she continued to wrangle him in and squeeze him to try to controll and calm him down and was highly unsuccessful. To say the VERY least, all of my kids were shocked. The mother did NOTHING! So of course, I thought that this article from the Huffington Post was perfect. Enjoy!
Saturday, February 18, 2012
How to Choose a Nanny Agency (www.nanny.com)
Thursday, February 16, 2012
I was taught a parenting lesson by an 8 year old today
Wednesday, February 15, 2012
What Way's Have You Connected With Your Child Today?

In our daily grind, we lose sight of the importance of spending quality time with our children. We are so concentrated on getting them up and dressed and fed before we send them off to school, and then when we get home to hurry and do their homework, feed them, get them in the bath and get them tucked back into bed.
Perhaps its taking the time to put your phone down, turn the TV off and just listen... What are they telling you by their behaviors? What do they really need from you? Maybe its taking a day off to just spend time with them? Send the nanny home early and come home an hour earlier? Maybe its making plans for the weekend and talking about their day and how it went.
At our house, it is mandatory to all sit for dinner as its the perfect time to chat about the day with all of our children and talk about the best and worst parts of their day. To have all of them paying attention to one another and to hear them all offer kind advice to one another is wonderful!
What can you do today and each day to connect with your child? Even if its just for a brief few minutes??
Something to think about.
Monday, February 13, 2012
...Random Acts of Kindness!
This is an awesome Blog! Rainbows Within Reach owner Debbie Clement, has wonderful ideas that have to do with everything from Music and movement to Art and teaching children positive and important behaviors. One of those ideas she posted yesterday to her blog called the Kindness Wreath. Its a wonderful idea to bring children together with their peers at school and another great way to link the Community with school, however I also thought it was a wonderful Idea to use in your home if you have multiple children, like we do!
Saturday, February 11, 2012
PAINT, CUT, PASTE!!
Thursday, February 9, 2012
Seaside Nannies on Facebook

Seaside Nannies announces The Facebook page is up and going! Please visit us on Facebook to get some awesome, incredible, creative ideas to engage your children with!
We are really excited to share with San Diego and Orange County the incredible web blogs we have found that references all kinds of creativity and ideas for children to enhance their perception of the world around them!
AWESOME NEW FAMILIES!
Monday, February 6, 2012
The Agency Process

The Agency Process for Families and Nannies
When looking for the perfect nanny, or looking for the best family to work for, finding the right nanny agency is an essential factor in securing symbiosis between client and caregiver.
Parents and nannies are continually being challenged in finding the right liaison to connect to each other. The good news is many nanny referral agencies are popping up all over the country, some online and some in the community, creating more opportunities for parents and nannies to make the right choices in finding the perfect connection. The question is, which is the right agency for you?
CALL AND COMPARE
Place a call into all the agencies in your community to see what they can offer YOU! Local nanny referral agencies can be found in publications, online, and in the local yellow pages. Professional nanny agencies should take the time to invest in a dialogue with you, so that you feel comfortable, leaving you with all questions answered.
ASK QUESTIONS
Ask the agency representative questions regarding their background and philosophy in connecting Nannies and Families within the community! Make sure their answers resonate with your own thoughts on the matter. Be detailed in your requests about the company, and ask about the clients and nannies that use their service. For example, who are the nanny agency owners and what are their backgrounds in? How did they get involved in the industry? What are their personal credentials as well as their agencies? How have they gained their reputation? How do they stay in tune with their industry? Do they attend the INA conference and network with one another for the better of their community? Are they involved in the community in other ways? What larger affiliations are they associated with (APNA and INA)? Are they child centered and are they knowledgeable about making sure the nanny candidates are aware of the specific ages and stages of the child’s development, so the candidates the agency sends over are appropriate? What are the minimum requirements of the agency’s nannies and what skill sets should they have? Are the nannies required to be CPR/First Aid Certified and can the agency help answer questions about taxes and payroll? If they cannot, can they direct you to the appropriate resources that are known in the industry to help with taxes, such as Breedlove and GTM?
HOW DOES IT WORK?
What is the general modus operandi of the nanny agency regarding their interviewing process? How does the agency screen their candidates? How do they screen their prospective clients/families? If the agency has online forms be sure to find out if they also have face-to-face interviews as well. Does the agency ask a nanny for a resume? Are the nannies required to supply the agency with references, if so what kind? This actually might include references for both parties in the process. Again, do your research!
SAFETY & “IN HOUSE” VISITS:
Ask if the agency does an “In House” visit. This is a crucial part of the process in finding the most appropriate match, making both the nanny and family experience a positive one, as well as this approach initiates a quick and accurate placement for both nanny and family. An agency representative will visit the home to assess the family’s own, personal family dynamic, as each family is unique!
The “over the phone” process is a typical scenario when using a nanny agency, however it is usually worth a little more money (if the agency fee is a slightly higher one) if a representative can come into the family home to see the children in their home environment. This is also a sure way to guarantee the nanny’s safety.
BACKGROUND CHECKS?
The nanny agency you decide to work with should offer background checks. This should include the minimum of, a Social Security trace, leading to every county the candidate has lived in, and a County Criminal check in every county they have ever resided in. The background check should also include a Department of Motor Vehicle report. Many agencies will also offer a drug screening, sometimes at an extra cost to the client, including consent from the nanny, depending on what state they reside in. All states have different laws, please make sure to check with the Department of Social Services in your state.
FEES?
What are the agency’s fees and why? Why do some agencies ask for a percentage of the nannies salary vs. flat rate nanny agencies? (Remember that location and demographic of where you live may have an impact.) Does the agency require the nanny pay them as well? Sometimes a percentage of the hours worked by the nanny are paid to the agency.
For families, ask if the nanny agency charges an upfront, non-refundable retainer and what is it for. Does the retainer get rolled into the final agency fee or is it extra? What are the benefits to both for you and your family’s budget for choosing an agency that charges “one month’s nanny salary” vs. a “percentage” vs. a “flat rate” agency? Many agencies that charge flat rates are very appealing to the wallet, however they might be so inundated with clients, that they might not be able to give you the personalized service that both nanny and client deserve.
GUARANTEE?
What are the agency’s policies with their guarantee? If the nanny that is hired decided to leave within a certain time frame, does the agency replace the nanny for no charge? How are the nannies secured within their positions? Nannies need to know they are supported by the agency and if their positions are secure with a contract. As nannies are required to make a commitment to the family in whom they are placed with, nannies also need to know there are always open lines of communication and a commitment from the family that employs them. This is assured within a nanny agency that is supportive of contractual documents that are offered as part of the agency process!
Using a nanny agency that has a good reputation in the community is a great place to start the agency process, so do your research! The questions suggested above will hopefully help you insure that your family-nanny partnership will be as efficient, productive and successful as possible; we all wish for happy homes, nannies, families and of course… happy children!
Dara B. Green
President, Seaside Nannies Inc.
Seaside Nannies Inc. was founded by Dara Green, nanny of 27 years and preschool teacher in the San Diego community. Seaside Nannies has been created to serve the needs of each family and nanny to create relationships that last.
Thursday, November 24, 2011
Giving Back to the Community with Your Children
Wednesday, November 16, 2011
Children learn About Bullying in a Profound Way
SNOW in San Diego?!

Looks like its true!! This weekend you and your children can enjoy the wonders of snow at Lego Land and Seaworld!
Friday, November 4, 2011
GREAT New Website for Parents and Children
Wednesday, November 2, 2011
Martha Stewart Kids Thanksgiving 2011

Martha Stewart is just the best! See what she has going of for your "kids table" this Thanksgiving Holiday!